wong says: "那你就选最好一个啦!"

if u really prepare to marry..then choose the best one and 拍拖两年就结婚.不要拖太久
对你没好处的..


jolin ginna says:
hmm.. well cos i also dun wanna make committed too fast lor..

wong says:
then what kind of boy u choose?

wong says:
clever girl..make more friends first b4 start

jolin ginna says:
i ald making tons of friends ya..

wong says:
如果要认识..一年在一起就可以先注册了..如果男的找很多借口..

那你就要担心了..

要重新考虑及选择

不要太容易被男生得到.不然他不会珍惜的囖

我29

wong says:
他小过你,你也接受呀

wong says:
说不定跟你拍两年...他觉得小,而且他还算帅的话.也许就找过呢.男人30一条龙啊..

jolin ginna says:
well this 22 he is reali sweet.. not reali matured yet so i'm holding on lor to my stand..

wong says:
恩..不过有些人22岁也很成熟的

jolin ginna says:
he's still a bit not yet grown up lo..

wong says:
如果他拍拖两年还不结婚..找很多理由的话.那不要让他等..如果他真心喜欢你,想保护你,爱护你.他会娶你先的

wong says:
如果只是想找甜甜蜜蜜的拍拖爱情..他很适合你
wong says:

哦..那你觉得他想娶你吗

一时冲动也不是好事

wong says:
22岁逼近是很不理智的年龄

jolin ginna says:
ya lor.. i dun wanna rush thru also..

jolin ginna says:
i thought so too..
wong says:

我有一个新加坡女同事..她哥就是太早结婚而离婚了

jolin ginna says:
but then he's very devoted to me so i'm very touched.. 4 all that he's done..

jolin ginna says:
oki. hhmmm.. to idea age to marry is like 26..

wong says:
你都知道的啦..男人的话,十个有九个不可以相信..还没有追到你的时候,对你非常好..百般献殷勤..但是一旦最到你..又不回家,又不理你啦

wong says:
因为他会受朋友影响,而且他会不甘心就那么结婚了,因为他还没玩够..

wong says:
女孩都容易被感动的


wong says:
那他还没追到你..肯定不会对你怎么样


jolin ginna says:
i thought so too..

jolin ginna says:
cos he noes got alot of guys liked mi and is after me..

十个男孩有九个男孩都介意自己老婆是处女..因为占为己有特强

jolin ginna says:
so if your wife is not virgin u will mind lo..

wong says:
我自己觉得会介意..
除非那些经常去玩的...他会不mind
我会介意..因为我不是那种随便的人

jolin ginna says:
but noe is 21st century ald

wong says:
我相信有真爱的

jolin ginna says:
where got mind this kinda thing

wong says:
哈哈~~我比较传统

jolin ginna says:
then gd 4 ur wife..^^

wong says:
因为不保证我的老婆与我结婚后出去玩..所以我会找一个大方得体,有分寸,有想法,聪明的老婆

jolin ginna says:
so is u dun mind that ur wife go out and have fun?

wong says:
我不介意她出去聚会或什么

wong says:
因为我爱她,我相信她
如果在一起的话..就要相信对方..因为我大方,也希望她大方
为什么我说要找有分寸的女孩囖
有想法的女孩..如果她会做出那些事..那老公肯定不会原谅她..她肯冒这个风险吗
做好自己很重要
不过男女生多少都会吃醋..只要不过份就没事啦
大家都是读书人

jolin ginna says:
wow.. then would you respect ur wife like not touch her till marridge?

wong says:
是的..
我绝对不会婚前性行为因为我要负责任..

jolin ginna says:
ok so wat u think about guys who have this kinda thought?

wong says:
万一我在拍拖死了.我也能让她有个完美的婚姻呀

jolin ginna says:
like those who yearns 4 intimacy>

wong says:
我觉得他不会看重,也不懂得尊重女孩

有些男的会说,你迟早都是我的人,现在跟结婚之后有什么差别呢
这种男的比较自私...他没有想到女的比较脆弱是用来疼爱,保护,关心的

jolin ginna says:
hmm.. wat do think bout guys who ask gf to have intimacy ?


wong says:
easy come easy go..我觉得不好囖..

wong sent 12/27/2008 8:44 PM:
如果是拖拖手还没关心..亲亲脸还好

wong says:
如果过分的亲热..女的很容易着火..然后被爱冲昏脑..其实后悔就来不及了.其实就有这样的男孩..所以女生才会遭殃

jolin ginna says:
ya i thought so

wong says:
哈哈~~男女拍拖的时候是认识对方的为人..而不是叫你发生关系或亲热什么的

wong says:
女孩是需要来保护..因为她们都比较没安全感

jolin ginna says:
then as a guy .. u have ur needs?
wat u do?

wong says:
可以打球啊,或者做别的事分散注意力

wong says:
如果真的想..那就自己自慰呀

wong says:
也是可以舒解

jolin ginna says:
ok.. honestly.. would u approach ur gal ?

wong says:
但有些人会找小姐或强奸女孩囖

wong says:
我有些朋友还被她男朋友霸王硬上弓..很气氛

wong says:
我觉得我不会..我自己搞定wong says:
不过如果男生有一次就有第二次的

wong says:
千万不要上当囖wong says:
我自己控制自己的呀

wong says:
我很多很多女性朋友..所以我清楚
拍拖就像钓鱼一样.要收放自如

wong says:
不要一直拉,或是一直放线..而且也不能一直付出而没有得到..如果你一直宠他..你会害了自己.
我的想法都是因为我敬佩我妈妈,觉得女人很伟大..

再加上在医院实习看到做母亲的把孩子生出来的那一幕..
我比较站在女生角度去想..女权主义吧

jolin ginna says:
wow.. amazing.. can't believe that i hear this from a guy..

wong says:
所以女孩子怎么错不能打呀

wong says:
我比较讲道理..也自我检讨..
我很开心
..jolin ginna says:
then i think u are reali matured.. and caring and won't force on the gal u liked.. its gd..

jolin ginna says:
wah .. i believe ur gal would be so fortunate to be with you!!

wong says:
恩
wong says:
还没找到我心目中的理想


我也是很多人追我..但我都没有考虑.要结婚才去拍拖吧
wong says:

你还想知道什么呢..是不是觉得我很偏激呢..难以接受喔

jolin ginna says:
hmmm.. actually i think 4 gal is that the more u dun want then the more gal would initiate the intimacy..

wong says:
我自己控制自己的呀

wong says:
我很多很多女性朋友..所以我清楚

jolin ginna says:
no ar.. im total agree with wat u think cos that's exactly wat my church taught mi..

jolin ginna says:
and hearing that from a guy lets me understand more.. *tks tks*

wong says:
拍拖就像钓鱼一样.要收放自如

wong says:

不要一直拉,或是一直放线..
而且也不能一直付出而没有得到..如果你一直宠他..你会害了自己

我的想法都是因为我敬佩我妈妈,觉得女人很伟大..再加上在医院实习看到做母亲的把孩子生出来的那一幕..我很开心..

我比较站在女生角度去想..女权主义吧

jolin ginna says:
wow.. *amazing*.. can't believe that i hear this from a guy..

wong says:
所以女孩子怎么错不能打呀

我比较讲道理..也自我检讨..

如果你选择女孩是这样..你一早就懂了..但你还是喜欢她..那就要去包容,去体谅,去迁就她

jolin ginna says:
hmmm..
jolin ginna says:
its been a nice chat with ya..
jolin ginna says:
then i think u are reali matured.. and caring and won't force on the gal u liked.. its gd..
jolin ginna says:
wah .. i believe ur gal would be so fortunate to be with you!!

wong says:
恩
还没找到我心目中的理想

我也是很多人追我..但我都没有考虑.要结婚才去拍拖吧
wong says:
是啊..现在在跟一个厦门聊天.她在MSIA读书
wong says:
不过她妈妈要她回家.她很伤心呀

jolin ginna says:
u liked her.. well u are like 29.. so its impt that u think about it..
jolin ginna says:
getting hitched!!

wong says:
我还没拍过拖的

wong says:
因为我宁缺勿烂..要就找最好一个,最有感觉的,最想保护关心的结婚

jolin ginna says:
so romantic lor..

wong says:
我真的有那么好么...哈哈~~

wong says:
我真的很多女性朋友..不过如果我老婆闷..我就全部介绍给她认识囖..做姐妹都行..哈哈


jolin ginna says:
oki sure i would wanna noe your wife..

wong says:
你想认识我老婆?
没有怎么认识..懊

jolin ginna says:
ya.. if u have want nezt time.. iwanna tell her that prob u are the most precious guy on earth..
and that she would sure be very fortunate!!

wong says:
呵谢谢

jolin ginna says:
and that i believe she wont wanna leave you ya..
and that i can see a very meaniful and happy marridge

jolin ginna says:
*romantic*

wong says:
:D

wong says:
我希望是不离不弃的

wong says:
由始至终的

jolin ginna says:
that's wat everyone hoped too..

wong says:

希望两个拍拖到80岁
wong says:
恩..所以我很有原则立场的

jolin ginna says:
hey u noe wat..

jolin ginna says:
i'm very touched by wat u just said
*how i wish the guy i love would also say the same thing to me too *

wong says:

不会吧

wong says:
其实你对人好,人家就会对你好的啦

jolin ginna says:
but i reali hope that my guy will say the same thing treat mi like the way u said


wong says:
i study medical b4

wong says:
所以读过心理学
wong says:
恩
wong says:
要回家了.

jolin ginna says:
reali..

wong says:
我妹煮好汤..我要回家吃饭啦
wong says:
饿啊

jolin ginna says:
cya!

wong says:
省钱,没办法

jolin ginna says:
take care.. msg mi ya..

wong says:
好的..


i'm so amazed by all the words thst he said..
and ur're such a nice guy ^^

i pray that God will bless you with the rite gal ya!
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*well.. i liked to have many friends but husband- i onli need one..

>>hint hint: i'm onli attracted to guy who is spiritual ..

therefore

*i dun need too much attention from the rest*

*i onli need the right attention from the right guy*

though i longed to wanna be cherish by a guy

BUT

my requirements *stated*

still stays..

i believe my God have already arranged that

someone- embrace same values and teachings as me ..

*waiting 4 the time factor*

To: the ONE>>*Joshua 1:1*

*pls dun keep me waiting*

( o " "O)

~Today's Truth~

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Philippians 4:4-7 (NIV)

*Ginna is holiding on to the baton dearly*