a word to justin tan...

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joel osteen ministries
http://www.lightsource.com/ministry/joel_osteen_ministries/

~Sometime bad things happen is actually a sign of saying one is moving in the wrong direction..The best thing to do next is stop being stubborn n turn back..His love is sufficient enough to heal e heart that was broken, bring in peace n strength for one to move on the right track.. I strongly believe all things will work out great for those who love n trust in Him~!



and all these emotions is prob telling u to get direction thru His WORD

4 jesus,"curds and honey He shall eat, tat He may know how to refuse the evil aand CHOOSE GOOD!
honey= sweetness of His word
curd=oil of the milk!
while we worry about how fast we grow, God is concerned about how strong we grow, God view our lives from and 4 eternity, so he is never in a hurry!
the gifts and callind of God are irrevocable!
everything is life is ald ordained by GOd..
dun choose ur own way!!
at my darkest moments.. when i really seek 4 my purpose

We, as Christians, are to do the same. We are to take ourselves out of the physical world, into the spiritual world, and operate according to its values, truths, and realities. "If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above. . .

. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth" (vv. 1-2).


we are so busy that we have no time to pray to the lord, We just say, "Father, I am so busy because of Your work that I have no time to talk with you." God is grieved at these kinds of situations. (You must take the time to pray to the Lord, even though you neglect the work of God. It is essential that you first serve God in prayer.)

Love has a desire to have fellowship.

He only created you and me so that we could have fellowship with Him.
God Himself does not need anything except fellowship.
He has a great need to have fellowship with us.
Jacob's dream -- in which he sees the angels ascending and descending the ladder to heaven -- seems to be a turning point in his life. It appears to be the point at which he receives a personal relationship with the Lord.

So, too, we must have a personal relationship with God through Jesus, His Son, and our Savior, before we can experience the work of God in us and through us.


Joseph was faithful over small things, so God was able to set him over large things.
Most of our failures come with the small things. It rarely occurs to us that the challenge of the moment is to demonstrate ourselves faithful at that point.
Then -- and only then -- will we be trusted in the greater things.

Faithfulness in praise is a part of our privilege as servants of God.

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Dear justin,

First of all.. i reali Thank God that i got to know you. you have been so sweet to me.. i can't find any others who is as devoted to me as what your actions has displayed. Trust me, i reali appreaciate you for all that you have done.. showing me the love and concern and every other matters..

truly I do not doubt that feelings that you have for me. You are a very nice guy that i thought every gal would wanna be with you... so fun so crappy.. and childish(ooops ")the way you do things.. you have a mind of your own. reali enjoyed the times that we spent with the rest of the guys around our neighbourhood.

By now u should know that I'm a gal who is straightford, i speaks my mind about anything that i feel,

whether i'm happy.. sad.. angry.. offended.. i won't hide(cos i displayed out naturally)

That's me!

The way i am.. the way i get along with everyone is the same.. sometimes might be too friendly.. or too neglecting(if there's no click)
i must also admit that though i am strong headed.. i'm rather emotional*can't help it* the fact is that.. The ratio i would say is bout 8/10.(you can check out the statices)

though i know that you are a believer and no doubt you reali love God.. God had also gave you a desire to come City harvest Church.
( However due to your work commitment you are unable to commit to church)also we did a great job to influence the rest of your other friends. Its also your desire to see them getting save. Which is awesome..
( that's the primary reason why we got to know each other.. amen?)

What i wanna tell you is that i'm can be very D(insistent) of the things that i want. therefore many a times i did tell you that the kind of guy i'm looking for must flow along with visions and dreams and also embrace the same teachings that i've have been taught. knowing that you still love God despite not being able to church for two years. i'm glad tat you also fell in love with my church ya.. but like i told you.. putting God aside.. job aside..


what my heart wants is a guy whom can be more spiritual than me.. *rooted in the church*
so tat i can move up the spiritual ladder.. *keep my relationship strong!*

A healthy relationship=GOD must be RIGHT in the CENTER!

i'm so sorry that i can't allow this relationship to go further then this.. cos my cell leader also hope that its important that i should get a guy that could be rooted in church.. otherwise it would be unequally yoke. (you are who you mix around ya thru fellowship) that wat God says.. and there's only one kind of teaching.. we practice accountability.. tithing and offering.. quality quiet time with God. all these are essential to follow for ALL believers to grow spiritually.


and its a everyday process..

since we can't eye to eye in this aspect.. i thought that its also meaniless to discusse further.. or even talk about everlasting love.however and if we dun click then things might get very hard.. if this relationship is reali GOD given then what will happen WILL eventually HAPPEN!!

i think you reali need to TRUST GOD= having FAITH on that.. no doubt that i was reali touched by all your deeds but after pondering about it.. i thought its not reali true love. i was merely touched.. i understand that i have alot of male friends i get in touch with perharps that made you reali insecure... i like to be who i am that God has created me to be.. bubbly funloving.. outgoing.. the list goes on and on..

i onli thing that i reali thought we are incompatiable is that we are both pursuing differnt things.. you are career orientated. and i'm just God oreintated.

so that's why i need a guy who is Godly enough to lead me and guide me along.

therefore.. if like wat u said that GOD has sent His blessings for us to be together then no matter wat happens i believe that TIME proves everything.. if things were meant to be.. it WILL fall in place.. when the TIME is right.. Holy Spirit will put all things together.. our job is not to work but to pray and believe= "let things happens!" and the truth is

God has not given us a spirit of fear but of POWER & of LOVE & of a sound mind (2 timothy 1:7)

You KNOW that God loves you.. but when you seek ye first the kingdom of God..
watever you desires it shall be given to you!
you dun even have to do anything
(etc sending me home.. ..)

Learn to relax.. and things probably would work out better..

FEAR >>
impatatient,
mean,
jealouse,
boastful,
proud,
rude,
self seeking, and
easily angered!

it keeps a record of wrong. it never protects, trusts, hopes or perseveres.

FEAR is the opposite of LOVE!

love and fear both operatefrom BELIEF in the unseen.

love challenges us to doubt what we see and believe what we cannot!


FEAR urges us to believe wat is seen while doubting the unseen.

FEAR DISPLACES LOVE AND LOVE CAST OUT FEAR!

>>If you love somebody, let them go,
for if they return, they were always yours.
And if they don't, they never were."<<
maybe you can't understand why things somehow dun work out the way you WANT!
but GOD has everything in control ya..
one thing every believers must understand that WHEN WE ARE IN CONTROL.. GOD CAN'T BE IN CONTROL...

let go and let God handle..

i still cherish you as a friend.. and wanna keep this FRIENDSHIP..if you say that you reali do love me the way i am... if you can respect my decision then lets keep things as the way it is for now..

my revelation(26jan09)
pure friendship =w/o the intimacy element..

status i guess its not all that impt ya.. cos end of the day..
i think its all about the connection that matters..

love is a form of spiritual connection= being together...

being together or not together with the one u love (physically) is not that impt!
as long as spiritually is connected and know that both "KNOWS" that there's a place in both hearts...




(Romans 12:1-2) like wat paul says:
1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind,

but i hope you can UNDERSTAND howi feel about this matter..


faith is the substance of the things hoped for.. proof of the things unseen.
if u think that God can't give you the breakthru to attend church.. to receive disciplship.. to put to make you the kind of person he wanted you to be..

then.. he can't.. cos the Holy Spirit is limitted by ur unbelief.

["The just shall live by faith" (Romans 1:16-17).]

anyway that aside.. somehow i feel.. maybe.. you not the right guy?
at that's how i feel 4 now..
PS: do not get me wrong when i said you are more career minded.. its not wrong..

but we get the sequence right! (Singles)
1. GOD (seek ye 1st)
2. JOB (faithful in the earthly ministry)
3.MINISTRY (help Him to rule His kingdom)
4.RELATIONSHIP (God bless adam with a helper; its not good for man to be alone!)

so if u wanna know if the timing is right then its time to check if you got your pirorities right~!
in any case.. we dun displace GOD.
He must be right in the centre of wat u do.
our foundation is build >> on Christ Jesus!
if you build on anything on your own strength, ultimately.. it will fall.. cos the foundation is not rite..

God wanna raise up a generation of youth to be bold/courageous/ fearless. so its okay to be who we are in christ as long as we know that we glorifies God ultimately!

i urged you to pray for your breakthru(not 4 anyone's sake) for 4 your spiritual life sake.

Bible says: so what if you gain the whole world and yet losses your own soul?
*God will not give you a job that has no time to serve Him!*

man is limitted BUT GOD is unlimitted..
when you live by the world method then you can only stay in the natural realm... however when you excercise your faith= unseen evidence. you are releasing GOD's supernatural power ya..Then it will be GOd will fight 4 you and turn things round for your benefit!

justin.. you must believe that YOUR faith is bigger than God's no!

i have faith that God will bless you with a job that you can serve him and yet not be shortchange..

you must take the ACTIVE part on YOUR side to excercise YOUR faith..

BREAKTHRU= Faith+ prayer+ ACTION!!!

Faith without works is dead..
Faith is a gift..(from God)
Faith is simply strong convivtion in YOUR heart..
that you know and you know..

when you put him 1st He WILL NOT shortchange you!

the problem is..
Do u have FAITH to believe that God can do exceedingly abundently above all that you could even think or even imagine??

Trust me!! HE can.
(it takes 2 hands to clap)
God moves when we move..


i can see you doing great and almighty works.. 4 GOd!!
not because of the gifts and talents but He who is in us is greater then he who is in the world!


"Not by might nor by power but by my spirit"







pardon me if what i have spoken could be very blunt and have dissapointed/hurt you in anyway*which is not my intention at all*...

out of the abundence of my heart speaks!

and i hope its not too late to say all these..





(hope you enjoy this.. ur fav worship song*
and the chinese version- as wat i promised you to find* can be located too after u view this video.. enjoys )






Our SOURCE comes from God>> JESUS- *name ABOVE all names* and HIS precious blood has the POWER to redeem and restore-*bring everything back to its original purpose* and heal.. and that when we love HIM with all our heart soul and mind..

like wat the song sings..

"my eyes set on you(GOD) in this race that i run, no longer my ways, let YOUR will be done, make me a servant my heart ever true, clinging to the cross, i follow you, i follow you."

Proverbs 3:5-6
"Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight."

ps: Obedience is an active choice to do what God wants us to do.
Obedience is not just an outward motion -- it is also an inward attitude --

In HIS Almighty name, Ginna(jolin)